I AM deeply sorry that you are here right now, reading this page. Although there may be a few who are curious or randomly browsing web pages of death doulas, most of you are likely here because of your own or a loved one’s situation. 

I can say with little hesitation: there will never be a moment when any of us will be jumping for joy when it comes to having a conversation about the end of life. With that in mind, I want to acknowledge your courage and strength, because although there is no happy way to face this, there is a way to lessen the stress, anxiety, and anticipatory grief. Seeking out and including an end of life doula during this process can be part of your love letter to those who will be left behind. In some small way, you can at least have some peace as you face the inevitable.  I have been a witness to the unplanned and sudden death of a loved one, and I can tell you that it is those moments that still haunt me. 

This is why this work is not just a job for me—it is a passion. If I can be a part of preventing others from having to grieve without support and reduce their stress by providing a service that helps alleviate additional pain and suffering, then I have fulfilled my purpose. I want to create a space for you and your loved ones to live out your final days with peace. Dying with grace and dignity should not feel like a privilege.

For me personally, when I leave my body, the greatest legacy I can leave behind is that I served others and provided them with care, respect, and dignity at the end of their lives.